The Success Seminar
February 25th, 2009 by Talon @ 10:30 am - Filed under: Life, the Universe, and EverythingWell, I’m sitting here looking at the homework I am supposed to do for the Success Seminar I started taking on Monday – we are to write down how we see ourselves in the world of success, account for our successes and/or lack of success in life, and then finally rate our life on a scale of 1-10.
This seems like quite a lot of work, but really it’s just a summation of what’s been going on all my life. A chance to look at things, and actually get my thoughts about my view of success. One of the things I want to get out of doing this seminar is breaking through the idea of “that’s just the way it is” and how that permeates throughout all aspects of my life and how it goes. That idea is like my default explanation for why I’m not a millionaire, or married with kids, able to afford a house, or even just a car. It’s like I got dealt the wrong cards in life, and I’m at the mercy of fate, and as we all know fate is not kind.
So there’s owning up to my life and being responsible for having it go the way that it went – nobody else was there to live it but me, so it’s all on me in that respect and I don’t have the right to blame or fault anyone else. My free will is what I’ve got, and I’ve used it to get exactly where I am today.
Now is the time for the journey. The adventure that lies ahead is looking honestly, and maybe painfully, at the facts at hand and acting upon them. So I’ll be looking at what it is that creates “success” in the world of me and looking forward to a new future.